They're not sorting out their last breakup, and they're not swamped at work.
The hot/cold scenario typifies much more than a lack of certainty on a lover's part.
They are relentless marketers, as this is a job for them.
This is a partner who's in the game for an ego boost and doesn't possess the skill set required for a relationship with you.
Your time's better spent with someone who is capable of honesty, intimacy, and consistent behavior.
It’s not as simple as some online dating services claim it is.
Singles, both men and women, are under attack from the one that can tell you if the person is who she says she is, and if she has a criminal history.
They'll toy at it, dipping their toes in and out of the water without ever getting wet.
The cycles of hot and cold may make you feel like the powerless one.
If so, then you may have stumbled upon a highly sensitive and fearful individual.
These are easy questions to ask when you know what you want and what you deserve.
The standard industry reply is that “it’s not cost effective” and that “singles won’t pay for it.” Well, singles are “paying for it” in time, frustration, dissatisfaction and with their wallets.