So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from? “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.
Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to relieve the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome. Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit.
By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way. You want to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Rather than complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work? Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. ” If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Tell a girl “You’re the perfect combination of sexy and cute” (a great quote from Crazy Stupid Love) and don’t apologise for saying it.
Now you need to know how to pepper these core traits throughout your interactions with women.
So let’s quickly go through how to confidently attract a girl you’ve just met 🙂 Smile and hold eye contact.
You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.
In terms of how you behave around women, your status is determined by your level of confidence. When it comes to attraction, confidence is everything. If you’re a man who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a higher perception of himself over others, women will find you attractive.But first things first, it’s important we cover the core traits women find attractive in a man. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: (It’s the best way discover how to master attraction in a short space of time) Ok so let’s get started! Status is determined by two things – how you present yourself and how you behave around women.Although some factors (genetic makeup and wealth) are somewhat out of our control, there are many small changes you can make to appear like a man of status.So without further ado, lets start by finding out what the experts think are the BIGGEST attraction killers: The Biggest Attraction Killers (voted by 21 Female Dating Experts!) #1 Not holding eye contact / poor attention span #2 Too much sexual intent #3 Bragging & Talking too much (tied third place) #4 Risky topics – i.e ex girlfriends, sex & politics #5 Being too drunk #6 Bad hygiene #7 Being over eager #8 Not being present – i.e.Keep your chin up and make slow, non-jerky movements when gesticulating and turning your head. You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends.